I'm installing a brake module on my 2012 R/T. It is equiped with the factory tow package and all the toys that entails. I found the package with the pretty little grey connector and have my brake module harness made up. Doing the feet hanging up through the sunroof contorted upside down reach and feel. I cannot find where in the world I'm supposed to plug it in. I assumed it would be near the ODB connector or near the emergency brake pedal but no dice. Where is the mating connector for this little monster? Please help, my back is getting all jacked up just thinking about crawling back under that dash.